म हिँड्दै छु, गन्तव्य मेरो मृत्यु

म हिँड्दै छु, गन्तव्य मेरो मृत्यु, मृत्युबाट भाग्दै, कहिले लुक्दै कहिले लड्दै म हिँड्दै छु, मृत्युलाई भेट्न भ्रममा छु, ठुलो भ्रममा कहिले अस्पतालमा अलिकति समय किन्छु, कहिले मदिरा पसलमा अलिकति मृत्यु किन्छु थाहा छैन मेरो तराजुमा समय धेरै छ कि मृत्यु ? तर मलाई थाहा छ म हिँड्दै छु, गन्तव्य मेरो मृत्यु यो गन्तव्य मैले रोजेको होइन आमाको गर्भ देखी निर्धारित नै छ मेरो मात्र होइन, तिम्रो, तिम्रो अनि तिम्रो  अनि हामी सबैको गन्तव्य निश्चित छ । । । 

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From Writer to Tester: Why My Words Still Matter!

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As a QA engineer with over seven years of experience in writing, I’ve come to deeply appreciate the critical role that strong writing skills play in our field. It’s more than just documenting bugs; it’s about effective communication, clarity, and delivering higher-quality software. In my writing career, I learned that precision and clarity are as important as cheese in a pizza. This directly relates to writing high-quality bug reports. Vague descriptions lead to misinterpretations and delays. By meticulously documenting the steps to reproduce an issue, the expected behavior, and the actual outcome, I ensure developers have all the necessary information to understand and resolve the problem quickly. Furthermore, writing clear and concise test cases is necessary for efficient testing. All of us are well known for the fact that ambiguous instructions can lead to inconsistent test results and hinder collaboration. Besides, well-written test cases are easily understood by other testers as well, allowing for seamless knowledge sharing and improved test coverage. Beyond bug reports and test cases, effective communication is essential in a Quality Assurance role. Whether I’m collaborating with developers, communicating with stakeholders, or documenting test plans, strong writing skills enable me to convey information clearly and concisely. I have discovered that this not just helps me in better collaboration but also improves decision-making, and ultimately contributes to the project’s success. Well, my journey from writer to tester has been a fascinating one. While the subject matter has shifted from novels to code, the core principles of clear communication, precise language, and effective storytelling remain the same. In QA, these principles translate into impactful bug reports, well-defined test cases, and impactful communication with developers. My words may not write code, but they play a vital role in ensuring that the software we build is of the highest quality and meets the needs of our users. I believe that strong writing skills are not just a nice-to-have for QA engineers; they are an essential ingredient for success. Let me know about your POV on this topic! I’m always open to discussions.

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What I Do as an SEO Copywriter

As an SEO copywriter, I write website content with search engines in mind. I aim to help businesses increase their online visibility and attract more organic traffic. I do this by: 1. Keyword Research: 2. Writing Website Copy that aligns: 3. Optimizing On-Page Elements: 4. Building High-Quality Backlinks: 5. Monitoring and Analyzing Results: By combining strong writing skills with a deep understanding of search engine algorithms, I help businesses achieve their online marketing goals.

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Blockchain Technology: Wipe-Out The Misbelief

Disclaimer: This piece of content is only for beginners. Others can continue at their own risk! Forget what you’ve heard, blockchain isn’t some mystical mumbo jumbo. Imagine it like a super-secure chain of indestructible Lego blocks. Each block holds precious data, like a secret treasure chest. And guess what? They’re all linked together, making it impossible to tamper with any of them without destroying the whole chain. Now, this isn’t your grandma’s filing cabinet. This is a digital fortress, where data lives forever and ever. No more sneaky edits or disappearing records! Think of it this way: You’re trying to change one word in a thousand-page book. Easy, right? Wrong! You’d have to rewrite every single page, every single word, to make it consistent. That’s the basic idea of blockchain technology. But why is this even useful? Well, imagine a world where your medical records are unchangeable, your votes are 100% secure, and your money travels the globe without any middlemen (say goodbye, bank fees!). Blockchain is the key to this futuristic paradise. And the big players are already on board: IBM, Walmart, Tesla, Nike, and even Google – they’re all diving headfirst into this blockchain revolution. So, what are we waiting for? Let’s bring this game-changing tech to Nepal! Imagine the possibilities: jobs, a booming digital economy, and a future where trust and transparency reign supreme. Disclaimer: Blockchain can get pretty complex, but the core idea is surprisingly straightforward.

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Importance of predefining features in any software project

Imagine this: You’re building a new house. You wouldn’t just start hammering nails, right? You’d begin with a blueprint – a detailed plan outlining every room, window, and door. That’s exactly what a detailed feature list does for your software project. It’s your blueprint. Outlining every feature gives you a crystal-clear picture of what you’re building. This prevents your project from going off the rails and keeps everyone on the same page. Without a defined scope, projects can easily fail. New features get added, priorities shift, and deadlines slip. This leads to confusion, delays, and potentially a product that fails to meet its original goals. Think of it like baking a cake. You wouldn’t just start throwing ingredients together, would you? You’d follow a recipe, right?  A feature list is your recipe for success and every small detail matters. It ensures your project stays on track, delivers the desired outcome, and avoids costly surprises down the line. By meticulously listing every feature upfront, you gain several advantages: Well, a comprehensive feature list acts as the foundation for a successful software development project. It ensures that everyone is aligned, minimizes risks, and ultimately delivers a product that meets the desired outcomes.  By defining the boundaries upfront, you avoid adding features on the fly, which can significantly impact timelines and budgets. On the other hand, a clear feature list improves communication and collaboration within the development team. Just like a house without a blueprint, you’d likely end up with a structure that’s unstable, inefficient and doesn’t meet your needs. No doubt that without a clear roadmap, projects can quickly go off course, leading to delays, budget overruns, and ultimately, a product that doesn’t meet expectations. That’s where a well-defined feature list comes in. It’s your blueprint, outlining every single capability your software should have. By taking the time to meticulously define your software’s features, you lay the groundwork for a successful and efficient development process. Essentially, a well-defined feature list is like a roadmap for your software project, guiding you toward a successful and on-time project delivery that makes sense to users.

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My Journey to Heaven

The worst feeling in the world is the feeling of being unwanted and unloved. For some reason, I always felt I was not enough. I tried to hurt my body in several ways in order to compensate for the pain that I had in my heart. I also tried to harden my emotions, stiffen my voice, shorten my smile, and make myself forlorn. I slept for hours and hours; not because I was lazy but just to escape this life, escape the ugliest feelings that I had in my head. Every night when I lay on my bed, surrounded by a net, covered by a huge blanket, just peeping my nose for air, I could not still resist my insecurities. The dark walls in front of me, frightened me every night. I listened to the most painful songs as if I were addicted to that pain. I spelled my emotions on social media where I was always judged and never really understood. I gave myself to the people who I thought were mine and they gave me an emptiness with my anxiety intensified and my soul suffered a great loss. I still did not give up on closing my eyes and suffocated to fall asleep, suffocated to breathe. It pains me to say that I woke up with an ache in my throat, and everlasting torture in my mind like an incurable disease. When I realized that it was not me but my emotions guiding me to the hawking’s black hole and sucking the life out of me, I became alert enough to not let myself fall on that pitch.  There’s very little difference between love and hatred, happiness and sadness, peace and conflict, being high and being low. I sealed my eyes with my eyelids for the sake of opening up to the divine truth of the universe. But the closure of my eyes was not enough to experience that ravishing delight as the unwanted thoughts kept on dancing in my head, so wildly, so unwelcomingly. I decided to shut myself from every earthly creation and open the gate to the most pious energy beyond the stars and planets. That night I traversed the high Himalayas, blue dark clouds, stars, planets, and many more. The view was astounding. When I went further I was surrounded by darkness deeper than that of my room wall. That was really adventurous. But there was no reason to be scared as I myself was the light. I wanted to explore every inch of the universe that was spreading divine love to me. I went further in search of the heaven that I had always heard of. I crossed the solar family and many other solar families and reached a big tree that was shiny, and decorated with lights. And my earthly brain thought that they must be celebrating some kind of festival. It was exciting to know that the universe also celebrated festivals. I went closer to that tree as if that was welcoming me with the greatest gratitude. When I was very close to the tree, the light grew tremendous but never that huge to make me blind. There was no air at all but I did not suffocate for the first time. I looked carefully and realized that it was a big gathering of several stars making a tree-like shape. I could listen to the godly silence and experience the beguiling beauty of creation. Yes, I could not find heaven but I did not even bother to look for any heaven as I was completely mesmerized by the deific essence. Not for a moment, I thought of earth. I did not want gravity to pull me back to the ground again. I wanted to stay there forever as I felt so welcomed and loved and cared for and admired. But then at the highest speed ever, I was drawn back to the bed of mine. And this time the morning was wearing a complete beauty in its arrival. The sun was waiting for me whispering: “after you, dear”. I noticed my unaltered breath and my mended soul full of heavenly peace. It felt as if I really had been to heaven. I smiled at the wall reminding it that it would never be able to scare me again. It was really nice to know that I was given another beautiful day to live.

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Unfolding Mental Illness

Neither it can be seen nor it can be touched but that doesn’t mean it ceases to exist. It’s like completely transparent air, that’s why you feel it and you cannot live without it. It can make you or break you. It can bring you to melancholy or elation within a fraction of a second. The more you try to perceive with your eyes, the more it becomes invisible. There’s only one way to know it and it is to believe that it is there. The “it” mystery that I’ve been talking about is none other than brain or mind or intellect or sense or grey matter: whatever you call it. When the mind becomes different or functions differently from the defined definition of normal behavior, it is called mental illness. In other words, a condition that causes serious disorder in a person’s thinking or behavior is defined as mental illness. Since its symptoms are completely different from the signs of cough or cancer, we cannot always figure out the kind of mental illness and its medications. We are not too far from the fact that no mental illness can be fully cured through medical pills as it also requires an individual’s effort, changes in lifestyle and thoughts, acceptance, and a certain level of consciousness. In simple words let’s regard it as more dangerous than HIV AIDS or cancer as living with mental illness is itself a hell that can make a person end their own life at any time. My research on causes of mental disturbances You become what you eat. The simpler it sounds, the more complex it is in reality. Foods might make your brain function more or less than necessary. When the brain has to operate more or less than its capacity, it leads to mental illness. It is proven that eating just before going to bed or eating a full stomach before sleeping causes nightmares. The reason behind this is that the brain needs to function more in order to carry out metabolism activity and hence brain waves are induced causing nightmares. The intake of foods like fried food, processed meat, refined cereals, candy, pastries, and high-fat dairy products can make the person more anxious and depressed. Foods like chicken, egg, milk, fruits, and vegetables release more serotonin in the brain and one can vividly remember their dreams. Serotonin is a feel-good hormone that is advantageous for mental health. On the other hand, It’s good to avoid foods and drinks containing caffeine and gluten as they hold the record of causing anxiety. Here let’s take an example of a mango plant. We know that mango plants always give mango as a fruit. In the same way, the children bear the properties of their parents. The DNA cells are transferred from parents to children exhibiting similar physical and psychological properties. But there’s always a chance of exception in human beings because each individual is different. Among the several mental diseases; bipolar disorder, one in ten children of the same parents can have it. In the patients having schizophrenia, there’s a 10% chance that one parent brother, or sister has the disease. The chance increases to 40% if both the parents have the disease and the chance goes up to 50% if the twin brother or sister has schizophrenia.  Stress is one of the inevitable parts of human life. Like we cannot imagine a day without night, happiness always comes along with a bit of sadness and that’s the rule of the universe. Stress neither comes with an expiry date nor with any manufacturing date. When a sensitive mind cannot handle the pressure of distress, it leads to several different mental diseases. It also gives birth to several different physical diseases and worsens the illness if it already exists. The deep injury in the head due to accidents can also lead to mental illness. There is a saying in our Nepalese society that we should never hit someone, especially a child in the head. It is said so because even minor brain injuries can lead to serious and unrecoverable mental illnesses for a lifetime. The head injury can lead to nerve damage that in turn causes mental trauma. That is why we can analyze that every head problem is more or less connected with the mental health and thoughts of the person (For instance migraine). It is said that childhood is the foundation of life. Whatever shape one’s life takes depends on childhood. That is why we bear the major responsibility to provide the best suitable environment for our children to nurture and grow. It is said that we become what we are fed and hence a child should always be fed good culture and foods to make their health and future bright and beautiful. The famous saying from William Wordsworth ”A child is the father of a man”, also symbolizes the same thing in a deeper scenario. When an unexpected event happens in life, we cannot control the flow of certain hormones in our brain and body. Either it overflows or underflows according to the situation and seriousness of the event. Sometimes we become completely shattered from within and it becomes impossible to console ourselves and recovery from that event is impossible. For example, unexpected death, unexpected lottery, sudden loss or gain of plenty of wealth, etc affects our mind in such a way that we fall into that deep pit of mental illness being helpless to retrieve ourselves from that. The movement of mind and body are inversely proportional to each other. When we are physically active, the circulation of blood in the brain is efficient. Due to this the movement and functioning of oxygen and other nutrients is high in the brain which keeps our nervous system healthy. Exercise promotes feeling good chemicals in the brain. It is also proved that crying increases awareness like yoga or martial arts. Crying also loses weight as stressful hormones pass through tears. However, crying every day

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Corona is innocent, I’m insane!

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For all your children that I turned dead The sins I committed, the mistakes I made I know this destiny is gonna fade Because You are the reason that I’m created Before this world, this life This universe and this birth I believe we were there Together with trust I strangled your love and Slowly betrayed you with time I broke your trust and God, you constantly amended mine Neither mother nor the moon is that white, How come you are so spotless, so clear, and bright? She born my body through her body And  You born my soul through your divine light Let me now be yours Since you were always mine Although I ignored you You were the one for me in hard times Fingers are pointed at Both you and they Where they blame my needs  And you show me the way The only thing I lament on is you making me so sensitive Too delicate for this time and pace Too slow to compete for this storm and race Oh God!!! What is going to take my life? Covid-19 or stress? Throughout my entire life I have been a sinner All those innocent animals I just treated them as dinner This pandemic has arrived to make me realize my crimes While I reach for the rhymes, You make me forget the verse For your beautiful creation, I became a curse Sorry, God, I became worse! I concreted your warm earth I polluted your pure water I slaughtered your innocent children I turned this nature into an absolute drain I boasted about my weapons I bragged about my inventions I disbelieved your existence Oh God, I was such nonsense! I collected plenty of wealth As if those riches I would take Corona is a lesson that I must intake A self-realization period, a vague break. God, give me enough strength To inhale this wild Corona air As I have been losing my patience All I need is your love, guidance, and care

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Why should a man play the major role in family’s economy?

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Families in East Asia are considered to be perfect when men look after the family’s finances, women look after the kitchen and children and the elders(mostly men) make the major family decisions. The circumstances of perfection have changed a little bit as we see men changing baby diapers and cutting vegetables, women working outside the home and making money, and elders considering the opinions of other younger family members. However, the major responsibility of the kitchen and children goes to the women no matter how hard they work the whole day. This is the major issue that female activists have been raising now and then. Today I am not here to put my views upon this cliche topic though it’s important because all of you have been doing that time and again. For now, let’s talk about men and the by-birth duties that have been prescribed to them so that we might be able to find the route to equality for both men and women. It is unjust to hand over the major financial responsibility of a family to the male member of the house.  It is miserable to know there are several families around us where the man is supposed to pay the school fees, buy the groceries, pay the electricity bills, etc. even when his wife has a fine income. However, what is more pathetic is that the men have subconsciously accepted themselves as the utmost economic pillars of the family. Their minds are filled with the horrible idea that their men will have pitiful situations, become beggars, and starve to death without their money.  People are used to calling women delicate creatures but when you look at men, they look equally fragile. The only difference is that men have been taught to show the world that they are bold and strong no matter what. Their feelings and emotions have been subdued for centuries as patriarchy has been stabbing them from behind. I agree that the suppression is different from that of women but it does not mean that it is any less severe. Men are obliged to make money and fulfill each and every necessity of every family member. Why is he not given the opportunity to choose his way of living but pushed into the obvious task of making money? He might have deep desires to cook, clean, and look after his children. He might want to sit in the next seat while his wife drives the car. He might want to wait for his life partner to come home from work to make a warm tea in her delight. Has this thought ever crossed your mind? If not then would you mind taking a minute to analyze this major inequality that has been deep-rooted in our mentality? Many different conclusions can be drawn from this issue. The main agenda is to think that, is it just the societal obligation/subconscious responsibility that compels men to earn for the family rather than babysitting. Is there the existence of something like men’s ego? Does he want to be superior to his woman by being the major financial supporter? Is it that hard for him to digest the fact that the family has been surviving on his wife’s income? Does it feel good to be served first at the dining table despite all the hatred that he has for his job? So many questions are left unanswered because the answer lies within ourselves. All we need to do is take a glance at it without any excuses. I think men should take the first step towards their real freedom, the way women have been fighting for their liberation. There are many females who have been working at home and at the office but are still kept away from making the main financial contributor to the family. For the men who are scared to take any step in making his wife the leader in the family: Taking your lady’s entire salary and making your kids come to you for their needs makes you less of a father or husband and more of a cowardly creature. For the women who are too lazy and lack self-respect: making excuses and surviving entirely on your husband’s hard-earned money which includes your shopping and parties makes you less of a woman and more of a parasite. Providing the opportunity of taking charge of the major economic responsibility to the female who is willing and daring to do that will not only help her become more confident and powerful but also provide men the freedom to pursue their incomplete dreams without worrying about finances. Moreover, several other men and women can follow the trail that is left by you and your spouse. Shoutout to all the women and men out there who are breaking the barriers of patriarchy.

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